Here in my temple the days are getting shorter and there are no more early sunrises for a time. The first winds of winter are beginning to blow.

I want to celebrate these changes of the seasons and say thank you from the bottom of my heart to all of you.

I am looking forward to entering this good time of year. I welcome this introspective season and invite you here to my temple. Come and experience with me the moods and emotions of winter. This is a time when I just need to be inside of me, feel the human presence and every day improve my knowledge. Come with me to learn and improve. We can find joy in pleasure, humanity, and true feelings. These make winter a time of happiness.

I want to share with all of you a couple of photos that I took during the summer with my sweet little camera so that I could remember and feel the last rays of sunshine. They make a moment to honour with you. It’s a way of being thankful to everyone who appears and becomes a part of our lives!

“Nature looks dead in winter because her life is gathered into her heart. She withers the plant down to the root that she may grow it up again fairer and stronger. She calls her family together within her inmost home to prepare them for being scattered abroad upon the face of the earth.” Hugh Macmillan. “Rejuvenescence” in The Ministry of Nature, 1871

Namaste
Fabi Jaya

Tantric Therapist Counsellor
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I’ve got great news for you about Workshops I have planned for you. There is no doubt at all that when people get together to experience Tantra first hand they learn a huge amount from each other. That is why I have arranged some days when we can meet in the near future.

The aim is to enhance life. What I mean by that is that when we strengthen and deepen our relationships with others we live life more fully. When we live in the moment and cultivate our senses we experience everything much more vividly. That’s what these Workshops set out to achieve.

You deserve to have this experience. Why not bring your partner with you too? I’m sure that you will be amazed by the difference that it will make in your life.

The Workshops will be happening on 13-14 October ’12 and again on 13-14 November ’12. The venues is the Tantric Temple at Sitges near Barcelona, Spain and the cost is only €300 pp. There’s more details here

It will be wonderful to meet!

Namaste,
Fabi

If you want to find out even more – and I’m sure you will! – visit my webpage here.

First you need to create the right setting. Prepare a room with love using candles, incense and relaxing music of your choice. Ensure that the warm oil you will be using is pure and natural oil for contact with erogenous zones.

Invite the one you love into the room you have made special. You could begin by undressing yourself or each other. This can be done at any time during foreplay. Undressing might be included early when creating the atmosphere or later when massaging and connecting. Whenever you undress, remember that you are symbolically disrobing your partner’s defences and exposing the soul.

Help you partner to lie down and you can begin the massage.

In general, the best way to give a sensual and arousing massage is to rub or stroke the body in the direction of the genitals. When energizing or licking your lover pay particular attention to the curve of the back especially on a woman. Stimulating this region can by itself arouse her erogenous zones and lubricate the yoni. Sensual massage is not meant to have the same effects on the body as a deep body massage. Instead it focuses on creating trust and connection. It is to stimulate sexual anticipation between lovers.

Make a point of being aware of any subtle shifts that take place in either you or your partner. Be sure to encourage feedback. As well as using your hands, stroke with your forearms as well. To add playfulness and stimulation, try using blindfolds. Go beyond using only hands and forearms. Your breasts, hair and genitals plus provocative dialogue are all ideal for this purpose.

The longer and more subtle the stroke, the more erotic and stimulating the sensation becomes. Deeper, shorter strokes tend to sedate and calm. Take your time and alternate between the active and passive roles.

It is best to arouse the whole body before reaching for the genitals. After building arousal by stimulating the main erogenous zones, use the less excitable parts of the body to relax your partner again.

Above all, remember the main rule: “Have fun!”

I love to work with couples. They can actually make me cry. They reach my heart directly. It is such a pleasure, and so beautiful, to see their love expand and grow. Thank you to all the couples and all the lovers of the world. I have a special “Thank you” for those couples who come to me to learn about Tantra in my Temple. They teach me every day that we can change our relationships. We can make them so much better. Human beings want to love and be loved! Tantra is an amazing way to do that and there is always so much more to discover. I have more to say about this on my webpage for couples.

Fabi